I went to a gym tonight, for a second. Phew!
I was helping another friend of mine (an older person like myself) put up some fliers for his rock and roll band. Well, not helping him exactly - actually, I ended up doing it instead of him. He's told me on many occasions that the thing he hates most in life, now that he's an older musician type, is putting up fliers in his home town for his rock 'n roll band -he says it's the single experience in life he finds most humbling. So, to get him to shut up, I said, oh, Christ, fine then, I'll do it; give me the damn things.
There's only one thing in life worse than being middle-aged and putting up fliers for your rock 'n roll band, and that's being middle-aged and putting up fliers for your stupid friend's rock 'n roll band; I mean, how dumb can you get? Is there anything more pathetic in life than an actual musician?
So I go out there, in the snow, with my thumb tacks and broken tape dispenser (this is a quandary in itself: sure, it's broken, and a new one is only $1.29, but I've hardly used any of the roll -am I supposed to just toss it or what?) I don't know where I'm supposed to go; it has been ages since I've flyered.
I pull in for a donut at Dunkin' Donuts in Orleans, and on the way out I have to wait for a couple of cars backing out of Willy's Gym, long enough that I consider the idea of popping in there to put up a flyer -after all, it's a clientele that's at least ambulatory. I park; I go in.
There's about five hundred people in there, in the biggest room I've ever seen, working out on machines. Normal, regular looking people, strapped in to an assortment of dire-looking harnesses. The room goes on forever. Actually, it used to be Star Market. There are actually as many people exercising in this room right now as there were buying food twenty years ago. What the hell? I'm frightened. I start to babble; I drop my thumbtacks. I'm in there for about two minutes, yet I will never be the same. Either that, or I always will.
I start to think about my wife (or, more accurately, I resume thinking about my wife), who is not married to a nice looking person, or even to a person who is even thinking about trying not to get any worse looking. (Some of you may remember my wife from previous columns: gorgeous, celestial, perfect, loves animals and long walks in the other direction; keeps me from ever being bored or serious for too long or restless or being able once ever to predict anything about her; knows what I need at all times, and that it's best not to give it to me. Has figured out somehow how to always be hilarious and fascinating and lovely.
Cooks sparingly. Disagrees with me about colors. Hates when I write about her, especially when I just make up stuff about her -especially last week. Has no idea how utterly dependent I am on her at every moment, or how thoroughly much she enthralls me, luckily. Her- Mrs. K. I would post flyers for her band (if she had one), every day (if I had to), just to maintain proximity. The flyers could say anything she wanted.
I like her. We're friends. I tricked her into going out with me, and then marrying me, and then not divorcing me, somehow. I don't know how I did it. Even I think I'm a genius sometimes.)
I love her, is the real truth. She still makes me feel like I'm fifteen (funny how it's always your oldest friends that make you feel the youngest), and I'd like to take this opportunity to ask her, in the face of God and up to possibly as many as forty or fifty readers (or, at least, users), tops, if she will please be my valentine, despite the fact that just being in Willy's Gym made me nervous enough to drop my thumbtacks. Though I may be a burnt out husk of a man, I ask her to find a use for this husk, and to remember that this might be one way to keep the corn fresh.
As for local music, well, there isn't any for this week, really, except the music in my heart for her, which is protected by my burnt-out husk.
Oh, oh, right, except for one thing: the new Patty Larkin album is amazing, and possibly the best thing she's ever done (which is saying something.) It's bold, dark, and sensational, and I'll try to explain next week how badly you all need one; but why wait, there's no point in trying to resist, buy it ("Red=Luck", on Vanguard) right away! Along with the Rhino re-issue of Randy Newman's "Good Old Boys" (which includes an entire extra disc of Randy's solo blueprint for the original album with extra songs and Randy laying out the plot line.)
I'd also suggest purchasing a copy of Jonathan Safran Foer's remarkable book, "Everything is Illuminated." There you go: three sublime, deep, romantic pieces of art that will still fail to make you as happy and interested on Valentine's Day as I am. Ha!
Friday, February 14, 2003
Friday, February 7, 2003
Girls Gone Wild
Can I be honest with you?
You seem like such a nice person; I hope it won’t seem presumptuous of me to say that. I just sort of need to talk to somebody, because I’m a little worried about something; well, maybe not worried, but concerned. No, worried.
You see, what’s happening is that I’m always catching Mrs. Kelp passed out in front of “Girls Gone Wild, Doggy Style” lately. I’m tempted to worry that this might mean Mrs. Kelp (to whom, incidentally, I am more than wedded, I am besotted, bewildernessed, and electrocuted; she enriches my every wretched synapse through the freezing cold terrible horribleness, like a terrier) is actually further into urban rap than I originally figured (after all, she is one fine, foxy lady); but it turns out that “Girls Gone Wild” just takes over on the channel she’s always falling asleep to late at night. So there is an explanation for it!
The thing is, I think it sort of makes her look bad. Once you get to a certain point in life, you just tend to worry when your wife watches “Girls Gone Wild, Doggy Style” more than twice a week. I mean, I’m not a young man anymore -and neither is she. What with Valentine’s Day less than a fortnight away, I’m a little nervous (and all the more so because I’m not all that sure how long a fortnight is.)
This isn’t the only problem I have with her viewing habits, either: why, earlier tonight she tried to get me to watch both “Just Shoot Me” and “Suddenly Seeking Susan” -in a row! (It’s worth mentioning that the latter features both Judd Nelson and Brooke Shields -in one show!) And I did try -because I do love her -but I did not succeed, because no one but her could possibly do such a thing. When I returned later, and she was dozing away to “Girls Gone Wild, Doggy Style”, I was positively relieved.
Then again, I suppose everyone is running a little ragged, what with the freezing cold terrible cold terribleness we’ve all been enduring lately. A friend called recently to regale me with the details of the Phil Spector murder case, but I was too busy watching “Joe Millionaire” to come to the phone. Winter is a horrible, agonizing platter of icy horrendous awfulness, but, you have to admit, it sure makes the rest of the year look pretty good. What we need around here is... more cowbell.
We also could use the return of “The Cheap Seats”, one of Cape Cod’s most beloved local music programs, which was recently canceled rather unceremoniously by WKPE. On contacting the show’s hostess and creator, Cat, last week, I was not able to glean much about the reason’s for the show’s sudden departure; it was clear that she didn’t feel at liberty to divulge much about the circumstances.
Cat has always been an ardent supporter and booster of the local scene, though, and it couldn’t hurt to contact the station at this point and give her a little support in return (not sure what ‘KPE has going for email, but their phone # is 508-790-3772.) For her part, Cat recommended supporting the other local music shows, like Suzanne Tonnaire’s Sunday night show on WPXC and Sue LaVallee’s Friday afternoon soiree on WKKL; she also said she’ll still be out there doing her bit wherever she can.
The good news is that Wellfleet’s Patty Larkin has a new album out called “Red = Luck” (Vanguard), and it’s adventuresome enough that I’ll need a few more listens before I can attempt an appraisal. What’s obvious early on is that she’s trying out some interesting new ideas, and even rocking a little harder in spots -all of which sounds encouraging to me.
Unfortunately, she doesn’t have any local dates scheduled in the near future, but she is playing at Sanders Theater in Cambridge on Friday, February 21st, with the wonderful Merrie Amsterberg (who also appears on her album) opening. If you’ve never been to Sanders Theater, it’s gorgeous and intimate and it sounds wonderful -well worth a trip over the bridge!
Next week: part one of a hard-hitting twelve part expose on why fudge isn’t as good as it used to be -stay tuned!
You seem like such a nice person; I hope it won’t seem presumptuous of me to say that. I just sort of need to talk to somebody, because I’m a little worried about something; well, maybe not worried, but concerned. No, worried.
You see, what’s happening is that I’m always catching Mrs. Kelp passed out in front of “Girls Gone Wild, Doggy Style” lately. I’m tempted to worry that this might mean Mrs. Kelp (to whom, incidentally, I am more than wedded, I am besotted, bewildernessed, and electrocuted; she enriches my every wretched synapse through the freezing cold terrible horribleness, like a terrier) is actually further into urban rap than I originally figured (after all, she is one fine, foxy lady); but it turns out that “Girls Gone Wild” just takes over on the channel she’s always falling asleep to late at night. So there is an explanation for it!
The thing is, I think it sort of makes her look bad. Once you get to a certain point in life, you just tend to worry when your wife watches “Girls Gone Wild, Doggy Style” more than twice a week. I mean, I’m not a young man anymore -and neither is she. What with Valentine’s Day less than a fortnight away, I’m a little nervous (and all the more so because I’m not all that sure how long a fortnight is.)
This isn’t the only problem I have with her viewing habits, either: why, earlier tonight she tried to get me to watch both “Just Shoot Me” and “Suddenly Seeking Susan” -in a row! (It’s worth mentioning that the latter features both Judd Nelson and Brooke Shields -in one show!) And I did try -because I do love her -but I did not succeed, because no one but her could possibly do such a thing. When I returned later, and she was dozing away to “Girls Gone Wild, Doggy Style”, I was positively relieved.
Then again, I suppose everyone is running a little ragged, what with the freezing cold terrible cold terribleness we’ve all been enduring lately. A friend called recently to regale me with the details of the Phil Spector murder case, but I was too busy watching “Joe Millionaire” to come to the phone. Winter is a horrible, agonizing platter of icy horrendous awfulness, but, you have to admit, it sure makes the rest of the year look pretty good. What we need around here is... more cowbell.
We also could use the return of “The Cheap Seats”, one of Cape Cod’s most beloved local music programs, which was recently canceled rather unceremoniously by WKPE. On contacting the show’s hostess and creator, Cat, last week, I was not able to glean much about the reason’s for the show’s sudden departure; it was clear that she didn’t feel at liberty to divulge much about the circumstances.
Cat has always been an ardent supporter and booster of the local scene, though, and it couldn’t hurt to contact the station at this point and give her a little support in return (not sure what ‘KPE has going for email, but their phone # is 508-790-3772.) For her part, Cat recommended supporting the other local music shows, like Suzanne Tonnaire’s Sunday night show on WPXC and Sue LaVallee’s Friday afternoon soiree on WKKL; she also said she’ll still be out there doing her bit wherever she can.
The good news is that Wellfleet’s Patty Larkin has a new album out called “Red = Luck” (Vanguard), and it’s adventuresome enough that I’ll need a few more listens before I can attempt an appraisal. What’s obvious early on is that she’s trying out some interesting new ideas, and even rocking a little harder in spots -all of which sounds encouraging to me.
Unfortunately, she doesn’t have any local dates scheduled in the near future, but she is playing at Sanders Theater in Cambridge on Friday, February 21st, with the wonderful Merrie Amsterberg (who also appears on her album) opening. If you’ve never been to Sanders Theater, it’s gorgeous and intimate and it sounds wonderful -well worth a trip over the bridge!
Next week: part one of a hard-hitting twelve part expose on why fudge isn’t as good as it used to be -stay tuned!
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